Breast Cancer Pregnancy Journey by Constance, USA

444 Days, 10 months of Chemotherapy, 36 rounds of radiation, 3 surgeries 2 Miracle Babies. A veteran (member of the Armed Forces of the United States). Breast cancer warrior juggling parenting and cancer with such grace and strength. One of the absolute strongest person, I’ve come across.

Constance discusses her Breast Cancer Journey With MOMSHUBBUB

I try so hard to be normal. So much so that some forget it’s hard for me. I go back and forth between wanting people to treat me as if I didn’t have cancer but also still recognizing that I’m not able to do some things as I once could.

It’s a constant struggle.

I get winded walking up the stairs. I get tired just carrying Declan in the car seat to the car. I can’t run with isla for very long. It’s hard for a 2 year old to understand but adults should.

If you know someone who has cancer or is just getting back to life after active treatment, give them grace. Be kind.

Don’t treat them as if they should be fine and dandy because even after treatment they still suffer from the after effects of said treatment. They still have body dysmorphia or are struggling mentally.

While I mourn the woman I once was, I’m proud of who I’m becoming. Stronger, better, happier. 

Even when I second guess myself (because chemicals imbalance my thoughts A Lot) and I often feel and act crazy I know I am getting better.

There are no right words to say. If you don’t know what to say it’s better to just be honest, I know what to say it’s better to just be honest, I know I appreciate that and so will others.

Thank you for sharing your story with MOMSHUBBUB

Today is WORLD CANCER DAY. take that time today to reach out to someone you know with cancer; families that are struggling during the treatment a simple text, call or message goes a long way.

Remember that most cancer patients don’t want to be treated differently, any love and support you provide can make a big difference. 

Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about, BE KIND. ALWAYS .